Can a divorce ever be easy?
An "easy" divorce can be an attractive scenario if you are eager to end your marriage and move forward. However, it is a legal process and a major life event, so it may not necessarily be as easy as you would like. That…
5 reasons behind divorces that take a long time – and solutions to these issues!
Many of us have heard or experienced stories of divorces that take a long time - months or even years to finalize. Those involved in these stories often feel exhausted, frustrated, and angry when the process takes longer than it has to. Divorces…
Shocked by a divorce? What you should (and shouldn’t) do
Hearing your partner tell you they want a divorce can be devastating if you were not expecting it. While this is indeed a tumultuous, disorienting time, what you do and do not do in the immediate aftermath of your spouse's decision can significantly…
Does cheating affect my divorce?
Watch Gene C. Colman’s presentation at the Sept. 2022 Men & Families Conference – “The Newly Expanded Definition of “Family Violence” in the Divorce Act” (of Canada) Infidelity is a common trigger behind parties' decision to divorce, whether it is the deceit behind…
Overcoming challenges of equal shared parenting
Studies and surveys show that equal shared parenting after divorce or separation is often in a child's best interests. And many parents are willing or eager to share parenting time and responsibilities. That said, the increasing support for equal shared parenting across Canada does not…
Keeping a clear head when a divorce goes off the rails
A divorce can make you feel out of control. If you feel that the situation is becoming unmanageable, know there are some things you can do to get back on track and in control. Talk to your lawyer The divorce process can feel…
Asset valuation mistakes to avoid in a divorce
Proper asset valuations are essential to dividing property and calculating equalization payments in Ontario. Mistakes that result in undervaluing or overvaluing property can create significant financial and legal headaches. As such, it is crucial to avoid them, including the more common ones we…
What evidence is important when seeking parenting time?
Protecting your child's rights to spend time with you and making decisions for them is vital from the 'get go' in family law cases. Unfortunately, the process can be complicated and contentious if parents disagree on parenting responsibilities and time sharing. Rest assured…
Mediation just might be for you!
Mediating a divorce is generally faster, less expensive are more cooperative than taking a case to court. It also allows divorcing spouses to maintain more control over the outcome. This can all happen with the help and guidance of a trained mediator. But…
Can you have a child-centered divorce?
When someone becomes a parent, their child becomes the center of their world. Parents make decisions and shift their priorities to ensure their child is safe and happy. These behaviors should not change when parents split up. Thus, having a child-centered divorce or…
