ADMISSION IMPOSSIBLE? RETHINKING THE ROLE OF RULE 22 IN ONTARIO FAMILY LITIGATION – Practical Guide
Requests to Admit under Ontario Family Law Rule 22 can make or break your case, but courts handle them inconsistently—some treat them as binding, others as potentially optional. This blog condenses my Ontario Family Law Reporter article (Vol. 39, Issue 9, March 2026) article explaining how to use (or defend against) Requests to Admit effectively to protect your rights in parenting, support, or property disputes. (If you are a lawyer or paralegal, I recommend that you read the full academic article.)
What Is a Request to Admit?
A Request to Admit (Form 22) under Ontario Family Law Rule 22 lets one party ask another to confirm specific facts or document authenticity—for the case only.
You must respond within 20 days using Form 22A: admit, deny, or refuse with reasons.
No response? You’re deemed to admit everything, which can lock in facts that could prove to be unfavorable for your case.
Two Conflicting Court Approaches
Ontario courts split on enforcing these admissions, creating uncertainty for families like yours.
| Approach | Key Idea | Case Examples |
| Stream 1: Preliminary | Admissions open an “evidentiary gate” but don’t bind; judges weigh all trial evidence. | Jama v. Basdeo, 2020 ONSC 2922
Children’s Aid Society of Algoma v. F.M., 2021 ONCJ 184 Laundry v. Greystock-Wood, 2023 ONSC 7047 |
| Stream 2: Binding | Admissions are conclusive unless withdrawn via Rule 22(5); silence has real consequences. | Serra v. Serra, 2009 ONCA 105
Nobrega v. MacLennan, 2019 ONSC 820 Non Chhom v. Green, 2023 ONCA 692 |
In my view, Stream 2 better promotes fairness and efficiency—admissions should stick to narrow factual issues only. Save time and costs.
My Recommended Framework
Here are Colman’s recommended procedural fairness and justice safeguards. First, if you are the party preparing and serving the Request to Admit, keep these principles in mind:
- Keep it short: Keep the requests short and strictly factual (e.g., “Separation date: June 1, 2024”). Do not serve an overly lengthy Request to Admit and especially do not do so at a late stage in the litigation. That can backfire badly and tempt the judge to ignore the Request to Admit.
- Scope check: Do not ask for admissions that state legal conclusions or ultimate issues (e.g., “You’re underemployed”). Stick to the facts only. (eg. You did not submit any employment applications after you lost your job.)
- Presume binding: Rely on them for strategy (e.g., reduced proof on admitted income).
- Be prepared to defend against a Withdrawal Motion: Track your reliance to later oppose attempted withdrawals.
- Contradictory Evidence: If you ask for an admission and get it by response or by virtue of nonresponse, then certainly do not lead evidence that contradicts the admission (e.g., your own documents/evidence prove a different income).
If you are the party who is served with a Request to Admit, here are your guiding principles:
- Respond promptly: Respond within 20 days—admit truths, deny disputed facts with brief reasons.
- Missed the Deadline? Missed it? Motion immediately for extension/withdrawal – Rule 22(5). Move quickly with evidence of error and no prejudice to opponent.
- Self-reps: Form 22 warns in bold—non-response admits facts. Courts won’t excuse ignorance.
- Don’t think that you can fix it at trial: Again, bring your deemed admission set aside motion promptly well prior to trial. Don’t think that you can waltz around the admissions at trial just because that might have fortuitously worked in some other cases.
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